decision making

in making decision,there are always 3things that will influence the judgement..
1st-mind..
2nd-ego..
3rd-will..


mind..
it will help us to think about the choices we have..
is it good or bad...
or either it is legal or illegal...
normally people will use the mind to verdict..
and almost everyone thinks that mind is the best medium to make a spontaneou..
but are they 100% sure that they can submissive the decision made by the mind??


ego..
those who decide anything based on the ego is the stupidest person in world...
decision made by using the ego to think usually will lead to calamity...
but sometimes,we cant run from utilizing it cuz we r too afraid to people's impression..
desirability to live up to people's expectation..
but think again..
the impact of the decision made will only affect us..
not those who expect us to make that choice...


but will??
no matter how good the decision made by our mind..
doesn't mean that we will be able to follow it..
cuz sometimes,we make the decision  by considering the ideas put in our mind unconsciously ..
if we dont have the will to follow the decision made, its just a waste of time by thinking..


my whole life,
i always follow my will..
i never wanna be good cuz people tell me that its wrong to do this and that..
but its because i want to be good..
i do not refuse to do something bad though i know its a sin..
cuz if its samting that i really want so badly..
no matter how hard i try to avoid it,ill still do it later..
guess thats why my life is always simple..
i never say that my decision is the best..
but all im saying,i do what i want to do..
and i never give a damn about what people say..
cuz the impact is mine to carry..


i pity those who wanna be good so badly..
but deep down,they want something real bad...
however,they couldn't get it even though that thing is already in their hand to be grasped..
it is all due to the idea put in their mind that they cant get that thing..
its illegal..
then what happen??
once in a while,when they are too weak to fight the desire,
they walk the 1st step to grasp that thing..
but later,when they regain the strength,
they bail out,withdraw the step made and try to stand like in the very beginning..
but derrr..
have u ever wonder,
maybe that 1 step u made have affected people around u??
maybe its a relieve for u to undo ur step..
but will it relieve the people influenced by it??


its a reminder to everyone and also me myself..
in decision making,dont use the brain alone..
but ask ur will,are u strong enough to carry the burden n the effect of the decision made??
if ur answer is no,then mark my word,do not make that decision...
take more times to consider..
or not,u will hurt people around u..